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Offline jmid

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« on: November 24, 2014, 01:04:21 PM »
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  • I am really disgusted by the NO use of "annulments" that are really nothing more than a "blessing" by the church of a divorce.
    I just spoke to a friend yesterday, he is a Trad, was married for over 30 years, had children and then one day his wife finds another man and files for divorce, then files for an annulment and receives it, making a mockery of their marriage and all marriages also. It seems any "marriage" now a days can be annulled. Now before someone responds with the usual BS  that an Annulment is not a divorce , and that certain criteria must be met.. blah, blah blah,.....I wasn't born yesterday, so please don't feed me all that crap...the people I know have been married multiple years, knew about marriage being forever ( I mean what Catholic doesn't??) so save it.
      Which makes me want to ask the following questions to any NO catholic:

    Is there such a thing as marriage anymore ?
    If you are at a wedding, witnessing a marriage, are they really getting married ??
    Are my parents really married?
    Am I really married ?
    Why doesn't the NO church just come out and endorse divorce ??  


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    « Reply #1 on: November 24, 2014, 05:50:51 PM »
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  • Marriage is a sacrament/ Precious Blood.  God made it, not man.  Marriage is a supernatural union.  Anything else is of man.  This husband is still married to his wife whether she likes it or not.  The husband must pray for her to repent and for her return. The return, if it should happen, depends upon the situation how they will unite, maybe as brother and sister, in their actions.  But rejection is the worst!  It is worse than death of a spouse.  The world makes it to easy, the no fault, like it or not attitude and give me half, how sick!!

    As catholics, we believe in no remarriage, so she is not getting what she wants. She thinks with the devil.  We also believe in forgiveness of sin and again, the victim needs prayers for themselves as well.  The wife could come to her senses and be very repentant, like Mary Magdalene.  

    If I were the husband, I would ask for all the Communion of Saints to help me in prayer.  Then I would beg for the Precious Blood.  If she were to return, she would have to have a check-up for any STD's!  You have to!  When the spouse does this, some times they are working and listen to gossip and talk that lead them to the devil.  Once they start, they feel dirty and then they feel no way out.  Next is ѕυιcιdє.  Yes, ѕυιcιdє for the wife who wants to make a split.  Victims hurt so bad, so very bad.  Know that Christ had rejection.   Prayers!!


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    « Reply #2 on: November 24, 2014, 06:39:30 PM »
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  • Tribunal Statistics for 2011 from the Canon Law Society of America

    The figures are..

    Los Angeles out of 530 cases.. 0% denied, or in other words.. 100% got an annulment declaration.

    Toledo, Allentown, Fresno, Peoria, Buffalo, Indianapolis, Belleville...

    It goes on and on..



    Sincerely,

    Shin

    'Flores apparuerunt in terra nostra. . . Fulcite me floribus.' (The flowers appear on the earth. . . stay me up with flowers. Sg 2:12,5)'-

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    « Reply #3 on: November 24, 2014, 08:58:21 PM »
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  • As long as you pay the money they want for an annulment, you get it.  In the Phx diocese is the year 2000, the cost was $1,000.  Revenue

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    « Reply #4 on: November 24, 2014, 11:50:21 PM »
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  • Quote from: jmid
    I am really disgusted by the NO use of "annulments" that are really nothing more than a "blessing" by the church of a divorce.
    I just spoke to a friend yesterday, he is a Trad, was married for over 30 years, had children and then one day his wife finds another man and files for divorce, then files for an annulment and receives it, making a mockery of their marriage and all marriages also. It seems any "marriage" now a days can be annulled. Now before someone responds with the usual BS  that an Annulment is not a divorce , and that certain criteria must be met.. blah, blah blah,.....I wasn't born yesterday, so please don't feed me all that crap...the people I know have been married multiple years, knew about marriage being forever ( I mean what Catholic doesn't??) so save it.
      Which makes me want to ask the following questions to any NO catholic:

    Is there such a thing as marriage anymore ?
    If you are at a wedding, witnessing a marriage, are they really getting married ??
    Are my parents really married?
    Am I really married ?
    Why doesn't the NO church just come out and endorse divorce ??  


    From the code of Canon Law;
    Can.  1060 Marriage possesses the favor of law; therefore, in a case of doubt, the validity of a marriage must be upheld until the contrary is proven.

    http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P3V.HTM