Yes, and I think what we're trying to say is that the Church shouldn't WANT a bunch of couples to be "divorcing", even for a good reason. Better to prevent the attempted non-marriage in the first place.
As I keep mentioning, there are permanent, real-world consequences for "attempted marriage" such as children, broken homes, jealousy, child support, experience with multiple partners, etc. These real problems occur even if everything is hunky-dory with the Church, in the eyes of God, etc.
Even if the couple are just stupid, ignorant (and therefore blameless) for not knowing the nature of marriage, the Church certainly should know better, and try to head off these bad consequences.
The Church should be instructing couples properly, and preventing these non-marriages before they get started.