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Offline InfiniteFaith

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Age limit for priesthoodbrotherhood?
« on: January 24, 2015, 11:04:52 AM »
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  • Is there an age limit for these vocations?


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    « Reply #1 on: January 24, 2015, 11:33:09 AM »
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  • I'm sure they all have some type of upper age limit but check the websites for the orders being considered.  They usually say what the age guidelines are.

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    « Reply #2 on: January 25, 2015, 02:06:16 PM »
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  • It will depend on the bishop.

    If he wants to pay for the seminary for an old man, and thinks he'll get enough out of him to make it worth while, he can do it.

    I hear in the archdiocese of LA that there's plenty of widower priests, who were married and raised a family and became priests after their spouses died.

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    « Reply #3 on: January 25, 2015, 03:56:13 PM »
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    It will depend on the bishop.

    If he wants to pay for the seminary for an old man, and thinks he'll get enough out of him to make it worth while, he can do it.

    I hear in the archdiocese of LA that there's plenty of widower priests, who were married and raised a family and became priests after their spouses died.


    My priest told me the upper limit is 30 years old. I'm gathering it may vary from diocese to diocese.

    I don't know if I have a calling to this vocation. I am seriously thinking about it more than ever. I'm looking at my life now, and I am 31 years old and unmarried. Even if I wanted to get married (which I do) I do not have a good enough job to support a family. And even if I had a job and a family, there would be the persecution of the world to deal with. Which has been pretty severe in the past. If I ever had to deal with the same intensity of persecution that I have had to deal with in the past, then I don't think I would even enjoy my marriage. Plus I would fear that my anger would be vented on my family at times. Of course if I were comfortable in my job then there would be no problems. But my experience thus far is that dealing with people at work adds stress. The current job that I hold is not too bad, but I sense the same things I have run into in the past.

    If I were to tell you that my past is following me around would you believe me? It seems like I am being stalked by my past mistakes. People seem to know things about me that they normally would not know. And yes it involves Jєωs.

    I know that persecution is not a calling to the priesthood/brotherhood. But these vocations would allow for me to get back to the same level of faith that I once had. I have not been able to get back to where I was because the world seems to keep dragging me down.

    Let me ask you since you were once a freemason. Do freemasons try to enslave people? Do they stalk people and try to control/manipulate them? I know this is off topic but I had to ask.

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    « Reply #4 on: January 25, 2015, 04:15:10 PM »
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    I know that persecution is not a calling to the priesthood/brotherhood.


    The priesthood/brotherhood will not protect you from persecution either. It might increase its severity. It is no escape from reality.

    IF, still listening to heavy rock music? What does your spiritual life consist in? What spiritual reading do you do?
    Help of Christians, guard our land from assault or inward stain,
    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.


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    « Reply #5 on: January 25, 2015, 05:26:45 PM »
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    I know that persecution is not a calling to the priesthood/brotherhood.


    The priesthood/brotherhood will not protect you from persecution either. It might increase its severity. It is no escape from reality.

    IF, still listening to heavy rock music? What does your spiritual life consist in? What spiritual reading do you do?


    Lately I have not been listening to heavy rock music.

     I pray every day and go to mass on a weekly basis.

    How might I be persecuted as a monk? They live a life of solitude.

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    « Reply #6 on: January 25, 2015, 05:33:56 PM »
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  • Even with solitude, the devil still attacks through our intellect in the mind. The flesh, the world, and the devil will always be a challenge to sanctity, even moreso for priests and religious.
    "Non nobis, Domine, non nobis; sed nomini tuo da gloriam..." (Ps. 113:9)

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    « Reply #7 on: January 25, 2015, 06:22:25 PM »
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    Even with solitude, the devil still attacks through our intellect in the mind. The flesh, the world, and the devil will always be a challenge to sanctity, even moreso for priests and religious.


    Thats why you counter his thoughts with positive/truthful thoughts. You tell yourself these things over and over again any time you encounter a sinful/evil thought.

    If the positive/truthful thought is not coming to you then reflect on the issue that you are dealing with and the counsel of the Holy Spirit will instill the thoughts that you need in your mind.


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    « Reply #8 on: January 25, 2015, 07:42:39 PM »
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  • IF, thank you for answering my first two questions. (I'm pleased to hear you are not listening to rock music)

    but what of the third question?

    Your question/ comment "How might I be persecuted as a monk? They live a life of solitude." illustrates that your knowledge of the saints, especially those who were hermits or monks, is very limited.

    That's why asked what are you reading. So what does your spiritual reading consist of?
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    « Reply #9 on: January 25, 2015, 07:44:39 PM »
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    IF, thank you for answering my first two questions. (I'm pleased to hear you are not listening to rock music)

    but what of the third question?

    Your question/ comment "How might I be persecuted as a monk? They live a life of solitude." illustrates that your knowledge of the saints, especially those who were hermits or monks, is very limited.

    That's why asked what are you reading. So what does your spiritual reading consist of?


    Nothing. But please let me know what it is that they dealt with. It sounds to me like they dealt with more of a spiritual battle rather than one of the outside world.

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    « Reply #10 on: January 25, 2015, 08:02:25 PM »
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    IF, thank you for answering my first two questions. (I'm pleased to hear you are not listening to rock music)

    but what of the third question?

    Your question/ comment "How might I be persecuted as a monk? They live a life of solitude." illustrates that your knowledge of the saints, especially those who were hermits or monks, is very limited.

    That's why asked what are you reading. So what does your spiritual reading consist of?


    Nothing. But please let me know what it is that they dealt with. It sounds to me like they dealt with more of a spiritual battle rather than one of the outside world.


    IF, please take the time to read about St Anthony of the Desert. I am sure there are many other examples of monks and hermits who faced great persecution.  It seems that when attempting to achieve sanctity they  separate themselves from the world, such as in monasteries or hermitages; the battles of worldliness can be better kept at bay, but the deeper spiritual ones rage even harder. I am sure others here can give you more examples.

    PS it is my opinion that if you want to grow in your Catholic life, you should always be reading some edifying book, such as about the lives of the saints or the writings of the Doctors of the Church etc. You will be surprised what good this does, even if it is only for 10 or 15 minutes a day.


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    « Reply #11 on: January 25, 2015, 08:36:17 PM »
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    Type St Antony of the Desert in the box and buy it, then read it. The authors name is St Athanasius. It's a great buy and you need to start reading.
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    No! You must do your own work. Nobody else can breathe for you and nobody else can read for you. Just do it! It is essential for your spiritual growth.
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    « Reply #12 on: January 26, 2015, 12:38:46 AM »
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    Buy it through Matthew:

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    Type St Antony of the Desert in the box and buy it, then read it. The authors name is St Athanasius. It's a great buy and you need to start reading.
    It's cheap as chips and you won't get a better buy anywhere.

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    But please let me know what it is that they dealt with.


    No! You must do your own work. Nobody else can breathe for you and nobody else can read for you. Just do it! It is essential for your spiritual growth.


    I appreciate your advice. I don't see this as being a requirement for being a monk though. Perhaps I could read this material once I reach the monastery.

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    « Reply #13 on: January 26, 2015, 12:52:59 AM »
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  • Whether or not you join a monastery, you need to develop a spiritual life. Have you ever spent any time in a monastery? Have you ever been on retreat?

    IF, if you cannot develop a taste for spiritual reading outside of a monastery, then I would say you are not fitted for a monastery.
    Help of Christians, guard our land from assault or inward stain,
    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.

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    « Reply #14 on: January 26, 2015, 03:33:18 AM »
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  • Do the Total Consecration to Jesus through Mary as prescribed by Louis de Montfort.

    Also, read The Mystical City of God here, or buy the volumes at Amazon so Matthew gets credit.

    You should also read the Scriptures daily.
    Blessed be the Lord my God, who teacheth my hands to fight, and my fingers to war. ~ Psalms 143:1 (Douay-Rheims)