My advice?
Develop discipline. The lay life is not for the undisciplined, any more than the religious or priestly life.
Learn your Faith, love your Faith, LIVE your Faith, and learn how to serve Mass. Serving Mass is not just for those on their way to the priesthood (or those who were seminarians in their youth).
And seriously consider a vocation. At least visit a seminary/monastery and give God the first shot at your life.
Don't say, "I am attracted to women, so I know I'm meant to be married." Uh, yeah...and all priests and religious are ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖs? Try again, bubba!
Any good priest is going to have plenty of testosterone. That's what makes a good man. But these good priests are also going to have tons of self-discipline, such that denial of self becomes a habit (virtue) and second nature.
Priests are not ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖs or girly-men who have no male drive. If I were a priest, I'd be extremely offended at that suggestion! I guess I'm offended at that suggestion because I was a seminarian once. And I looked around me and did NOT see a bunch of limp-wristed homos. (I was there before +Williamson left as rector...I don't know what it's like there today!)