Rum, consider the possibility that the likes on that post were expressions of personal animosity towards you rather than due to subjects under discussion. While I did not observe those exchanges, I have noticed on other forums that you have an abilty to put people's backs up. I suspect it is because so much of your posting takes the form of personal attacks rather than having a focus on issues. It is only to be expected that you would create enemies.
Nevertheless, even though I don't like you, I cannot imagine expressing approval for Dawn Marie's post. I detest the tactic of expressing disagreement with a man by attacking his masculinity. Comments along the lines of "if you were secure as a man you would ..." Make me furious. I do not think that such emasculating comments should ever be given support.