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What some girls do to attract men nowadays might achieve exactly the opposite effects.

Nowadays, young girls' minds have been filled with a MAGICAL FORMULA. What magical formula?
They believe dressing immodestly will help them find a husband. They think it's that simple. But it's just what they think, the real effect will not be what they expect.

In fact, dressing immodestly will cause more harm than good for girls.

(A) One of them is that it might pave the way for the future breakdown of their own marriages. Why?
-- Dressing immodestly might encourage men to become too obsessed with sex.
-- If a girl dress in an immodest manner, she is acting as a bad example to others. And this will lead to chain reactions, as a result, some time later, some husbands will get tempted which would do damages to marriages.

(B) Dressing immodestly might help find them the wrong husband.
(C) It could waste girls' time. This is because most men do not want to marry girls who dress like prostitutes (this is confirmed by survey research). If a man welcomes your dressing immodestly, then probably he is not preparing to marry you. Then why waste your time?

I've written volumes here on the subject of immodesty in women. It is not just a problem today, it has always existed, and was kept under wraps by Catholicism in the people that it converted, but since the 1920's, everything came apart. The way they dress is just an indicator of the way they live, it is just the tip of the iceberg. The mothers got their husbands by showing some skin, (or showing every last detail by wearing bikinis, shorts, and one piece bathing suits) and picking up their husbands at dance clubs and "giving it up" and that is what they taught their daughters.  Today there is scarcely a girl among EVEN so-called traditionalists (and of course you can forget about the rest of the world) who is not thrown to the wolves when they finish high school, if not earlier. What trad parent today does not allow their daughters to go out by themselves with their girlfriends to bars and parties? What trad parents do not allow their daughters to go out on "a date" by themselves? Those parents are just throwing their daughters to the wolves to become unwed mothers, aborters of children, or to unhappy shotgun weddings and divorce.

It is even worse than that, not one priest in the SSPX is teaching even what little you wrote!  

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Quote from: homeschoolmom on August 05, 2019, 08:11:55 AM

This is the bottom line. Even those of us who know and care and try have to be reminded over and over again. On these topics the priests have to repeat themselves probably twice a year in every parish and not walk on eggshells. They have to be prepared and willing to be hated for it. I say this as a woman, we will push every line we can, wherever we can, whenever we can, if it will give us that feeling of being "pretty" for the innocents girls, or "wanted" for the not-so innocent girls. That is a feeling many women get addicted to whether they realize it or not. It causes highs and lows and dependency just like a drug. Combine that with the fact that no one around us is dressed anymore and we get desensitized. The problem isn't going to resolve itself without strong leadership from the men.  

Response from  Last Tradhican - Fathers need to take an active role in the teaching of their children specially the girls, instead of relying on a school to teach them. …. They need to teach the girls how to dress modestly and how to avoid the trap (the lie), the flaw, that practically all women of today have, that their self esteem comes from and their beauty is judged by how good they are at attracting men. Men are attracted to any women that is easy, it has nothing to do with beauty, at least not in the short term (but long enough to get them pregnant!). Moreover, mother's have been teaching their daughters for generations that the way to get a man is to lure them with flirting (and allowing touches, hugs, kisses, fondling and …….). That is a sure beginning of a life of misery for women, being passed from one man to the other for the rest of their lives. It is like Russian roulette.