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  • What some girls do to attract men nowadays might achieve exactly the opposite effects.

    Nowadays, young girls' minds have been filled with a MAGICAL FORMULA. What magical formula?
    They believe dressing immodestly will help them find a husband. They think it's that simple. But it's just what they think, the real effect will not be what they expect.

    In fact, dressing immodestly will cause more harm than good for girls.

    (A) One of them is that it might pave the way for the future breakdown of their own marriages. Why?
    -- Dressing immodestly might encourage men to become too obsessed with sex.
    -- If a girl dress in an immodest manner, she is acting as a bad example to others. And this will lead to chain reactions, as a result, some time later, some husbands will get tempted which would do damages to marriages.

    (B) Dressing immodestly might help find them the wrong husband.
    (C) It could waste girls' time. This is because most men do not want to marry girls who dress like prostitutes (this is confirmed by survey research). If a man welcomes your dressing immodestly, then probably he is not preparing to marry you. Then why waste your time?

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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #1 on: December 02, 2019, 09:57:44 PM »
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  • I thought you were going to talk about how women assume that what THEY find attractive in men (strength, status, power, career) is the same thing men look for in women.

    How about NO WAY! Quite the opposite.
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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #2 on: December 02, 2019, 10:08:34 PM »
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  • How about NO WAY! Quite the opposite.

    Thank you for your response. What did you mean?

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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #3 on: December 02, 2019, 10:25:32 PM »
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  • Thank you for your response. What did you mean?

    Modern women think men are just women with different "equipment". Couldn't be farther from the truth.

    I prefer the Catholic point of view, namely: that aside from the fact that men and women are biologically compatible and able to produce fertile offspring, a case could be made that men and women are not the same species.

    That's how different men and women are. Barely the same species. Even the brains are wired differently.
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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #4 on: December 02, 2019, 10:37:38 PM »
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  • That's how different men and women are. Barely the same species. Even the brains are wired differently.

    Agree. 

    But that's not the theme of this thread, I was talking about female dress immodesty of nowadays.
    Many young girls are stupid enough to think of immodesty as a magical shortcut to finding a husband.
    Girls are all different, they should try to know themselves and find out their strong points. Then cultivate their own strong points, but no, many of them simply resort to immodesty. 

    Immodesty will only bring bad effects on themselves.


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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #5 on: December 02, 2019, 11:10:38 PM »
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  • Speaking from the perspective of a traditional Catholic man:

    • No man that a traditional Catholic woman would want, would ever value immodesty in a woman
    • A man wants the kind of woman he can trust out of his sight, that he can "turn his back on" and not have to worry about what she's doing
    • He wants a woman whom he can entrust with the spiritual welfare of their children --- nothing less will do
    • No worthy man wants a woman who makes room for sin in her life
    • No man wants to share a woman with other men, nor have them looking at her and fancying themselves able to lure her away from him
    • No man wants even so much as to think about his woman being unfaithful to him
    • Any man with any sense will value a woman who can help him get to heaven, not keep him from it
    • Women, if you dress immodestly, you are doing nothing but make men lust for you, and everyone else to make fun of you --- you are not attracting quality men



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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #6 on: December 03, 2019, 12:19:37 AM »
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  • What some girls do to attract men nowadays might achieve exactly the opposite effects.

    Nowadays, young girls' minds have been filled with a MAGICAL FORMULA. What magical formula?
    They believe dressing immodestly will help them find a husband. They think it's that simple. But it's just what they think, the real effect will not be what they expect.

    In fact, dressing immodestly will cause more harm than good for girls.

    (A) One of them is that it might pave the way for the future breakdown of their own marriages. Why?
    -- Dressing immodestly might encourage men to become too obsessed with sex.
    -- If a girl dress in an immodest manner, she is acting as a bad example to others. And this will lead to chain reactions, as a result, some time later, some husbands will get tempted which would do damages to marriages.

    (B) Dressing immodestly might help find them the wrong husband.
    (C) It could waste girls' time. This is because most men do not want to marry girls who dress like prostitutes (this is confirmed by survey research). If a man welcomes your dressing immodestly, then probably he is not preparing to marry you. Then why waste your time?

    I've written volumes here on the subject of immodesty in women. It is not just a problem today, it has always existed, and was kept under wraps by Catholicism in the people that it converted, but since the 1920's, everything came apart. The way they dress is just an indicator of the way they live, it is just the tip of the iceberg. The mothers got their husbands by showing some skin, (or showing every last detail by wearing bikinis, shorts, and one piece bathing suits) and picking up their husbands at dance clubs and "giving it up" and that is what they taught their daughters.  Today there is scarcely a girl among EVEN so-called traditionalists (and of course you can forget about the rest of the world) who is not thrown to the wolves when they finish high school, if not earlier. What trad parent today does not allow their daughters to go out by themselves with their girlfriends to bars and parties? What trad parents do not allow their daughters to go out on "a date" by themselves? Those parents are just throwing their daughters to the wolves to become unwed mothers, aborters of children, or to unhappy shotgun weddings and divorce.

    It is even worse than that, not one priest in the SSPX is teaching even what little you wrote!  
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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #7 on: December 03, 2019, 12:35:04 AM »
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  • I've written volumes here on the subject of immodesty in women.
    Here are just two recent ones:

    Paradigm Shift - Chaperoning Daughters - https://www.cathinfo.com/catholic-living-in-the-modern-world/paradigm-shift-chaperoning-daughters/

    SSPX Trad Daughters Being Lost to the World, 1960’s All Over Again - https://www.cathinfo.com/sspx-resistance-news/sspx-daughters-being-lost-to-the-world-1960s-all-over-again/

    SSPX Trad Culture is Near Dead
    The Vatican II church - Assisting Souls to Hell Since 1962

    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. Mat 24:24


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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #8 on: December 03, 2019, 01:00:54 AM »
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  • More thread links:

    Link - Raising Boy Crazy Airhead Daughters

    Link -  ST. MARY'S MODESTY

    Quote from: homeschoolmom on August 05, 2019, 08:11:55 AM
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    This is the bottom line. Even those of us who know and care and try have to be reminded over and over again. On these topics the priests have to repeat themselves probably twice a year in every parish and not walk on eggshells. They have to be prepared and willing to be hated for it. I say this as a woman, we will push every line we can, wherever we can, whenever we can, if it will give us that feeling of being "pretty" for the innocents girls, or "wanted" for the not-so innocent girls. That is a feeling many women get addicted to whether they realize it or not. It causes highs and lows and dependency just like a drug. Combine that with the fact that no one around us is dressed anymore and we get desensitized. The problem isn't going to resolve itself without strong leadership from the men.  

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    Response from  Last Tradhican - Fathers need to take an active role in the teaching of their children specially the girls, instead of relying on a school to teach them. …. They need to teach the girls how to dress modestly and how to avoid the trap (the lie), the flaw, that practically all women of today have, that their self esteem comes from and their beauty is judged by how good they are at attracting men. Men are attracted to any women that is easy, it has nothing to do with beauty, at least not in the short term (but long enough to get them pregnant!). Moreover, mother's have been teaching their daughters for generations that the way to get a man is to lure them with flirting (and allowing touches, hugs, kisses, fondling and …….). That is a sure beginning of a life of misery for women, being passed from one man to the other for the rest of their lives. It is like Russian roulette.





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    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. Mat 24:24

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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #9 on: December 03, 2019, 12:32:46 PM »
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    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. Mat 24:24

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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #10 on: December 03, 2019, 12:35:49 PM »
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  • They believe dressing immodestly will help them find a husband. They think it's that simple. But it's just what they think, the real effect will not be what they expect.
    Lol, I don't know what "modern girl" believes this. First thing to understand and what will make everything else about the "modern girl" clear: they're not looking for a husband. E. Michael Jones puts it aptly: "transient sterile relationships." Hook up culture.


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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #11 on: December 03, 2019, 03:19:34 PM »
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  • Speaking from the perspective of a traditional Catholic man:

    • No man that a traditional Catholic woman would want, would ever value immodesty in a woman
    • A man wants the kind of woman he can trust out of his sight, that he can "turn his back on" and not have to worry about what she's doing
    • He wants a woman whom he can entrust with the spiritual welfare of their children --- nothing less will do
    • No worthy man wants a woman who makes room for sin in her life
    • No man wants to share a woman with other men, nor have them looking at her and fancying themselves able to lure her away from him
    • No man wants even so much as to think about his woman being unfaithful to him
    • Any man with any sense will value a woman who can help him get to heaven, not keep him from it
    • Women, if you dress immodestly, you are doing nothing but make men lust for you, and everyone else to make fun of you --- you are not attracting quality men
    An EXCELLENT summary. 
    "The aim of the whole theology of St. Thomas is to bring us into close living intimacy with God."
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    Re: What Modern Girls Do to Attract Men might Achieve Opposite Effects
    « Reply #12 on: December 03, 2019, 04:22:20 PM »
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  • This illustrates perfectly why it is SO important that men, Catholic men and especially traditional Catholic men make absolutely clear what standards of dress and behaviour are appropriate for Godly women and girls. 

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