How about NO WAY! Quite the opposite.
Thank you for your response. What did you mean?
That's how different men and women are. Barely the same species. Even the brains are wired differently.
What some girls do to attract men nowadays might achieve exactly the opposite effects.
Nowadays, young girls' minds have been filled with a MAGICAL FORMULA. What magical formula?
They believe dressing immodestly will help them find a husband. They think it's that simple. But it's just what they think, the real effect will not be what they expect.
In fact, dressing immodestly will cause more harm than good for girls.
(A) One of them is that it might pave the way for the future breakdown of their own marriages. Why?
-- Dressing immodestly might encourage men to become too obsessed with sex.
-- If a girl dress in an immodest manner, she is acting as a bad example to others. And this will lead to chain reactions, as a result, some time later, some husbands will get tempted which would do damages to marriages.
(B) Dressing immodestly might help find them the wrong husband.
(C) It could waste girls' time. This is because most men do not want to marry girls who dress like prostitutes (this is confirmed by survey research). If a man welcomes your dressing immodestly, then probably he is not preparing to marry you. Then why waste your time?
I've written volumes here on the subject of immodesty in women.Here are just two recent ones:
This is the bottom line. Even those of us who know and care and try have to be reminded over and over again. On these topics the priests have to repeat themselves probably twice a year in every parish and not walk on eggshells. They have to be prepared and willing to be hated for it. I say this as a woman, we will push every line we can, wherever we can, whenever we can, if it will give us that feeling of being "pretty" for the innocents girls, or "wanted" for the not-so innocent girls. That is a feeling many women get addicted to whether they realize it or not. It causes highs and lows and dependency just like a drug. Combine that with the fact that no one around us is dressed anymore and we get desensitized. The problem isn't going to resolve itself without strong leadership from the men.
Response from Last Tradhican - Fathers need to take an active role in the teaching of their children specially the girls, instead of relying on a school to teach them. …. They need to teach the girls how to dress modestly and how to avoid the trap (the lie), the flaw, that practically all women of today have, that their self esteem comes from and their beauty is judged by how good they are at attracting men. Men are attracted to any women that is easy, it has nothing to do with beauty, at least not in the short term (but long enough to get them pregnant!). Moreover, mother's have been teaching their daughters for generations that the way to get a man is to lure them with flirting (and allowing touches, hugs, kisses, fondling and …….). That is a sure beginning of a life of misery for women, being passed from one man to the other for the rest of their lives. It is like Russian roulette.
They believe dressing immodestly will help them find a husband. They think it's that simple. But it's just what they think, the real effect will not be what they expect.Lol, I don't know what "modern girl" believes this. First thing to understand and what will make everything else about the "modern girl" clear: they're not looking for a husband. E. Michael Jones puts it aptly: "transient sterile relationships." Hook up culture.
Speaking from the perspective of a traditional Catholic man:An EXCELLENT summary.
- No man that a traditional Catholic woman would want, would ever value immodesty in a woman
- A man wants the kind of woman he can trust out of his sight, that he can "turn his back on" and not have to worry about what she's doing
- He wants a woman whom he can entrust with the spiritual welfare of their children --- nothing less will do
- No worthy man wants a woman who makes room for sin in her life
- No man wants to share a woman with other men, nor have them looking at her and fancying themselves able to lure her away from him
- No man wants even so much as to think about his woman being unfaithful to him
- Any man with any sense will value a woman who can help him get to heaven, not keep him from it
- Women, if you dress immodestly, you are doing nothing but make men lust for you, and everyone else to make fun of you --- you are not attracting quality men