Second of all, I'd like you to know that I hope that Our Lord God bless you Traditional Guy 20. I hope that God fills your soul with His unending grace and that Our Blessed Mother will obtain from her Son all that is necessary for your salvation.
Well hey thank you for the prayer I'll take it ha.
Anyway I do not consider myself the "only man" by the way and there are a few that I consider real men, but it's a tiny speck of men. My grandfather for instance, who only read a handful of books in his life and never listened to classical music, however he knew how to box, could command authority, and worked hard his whole life with his hands and also being a pilot.
I can also say that alaric seems to be a real man in my opinion from what I've read of him, doing military service, and being a fighter against overwhelming odds against him.