That's true. Because of American society (Western society in general) women are told to forget men
They're not told to forget men
per se, but they're told that they have no moral responsibilities or obligations to them. The social penalties for female misbehavior have disappeared. This is deeply affecting trads, but the response you get when you bring it up is to be shamed as a loser, as being hopelessly awkward around girls, unattractive, etc.
It has nothing to do with reality, it has to do with the way these boys were raised from birth to have an exaggerated moral esteem for women who behave badly.
A lot of men don't have good models of womanhood in their personal lives. They don't even know what a good woman is supposed to be like. They're just programmed to make excuses for bad feminine behavior.