Is fair enough. I have have look at forum for many year. is where I learn word douchebag. remember sean johnson and ladislaus and gladius veritatis call many people douchebag. may have missed you correct them.
Your own search didn't bring up ANY of these alleged posts, so obviously I moderated them years ago. Or your memory is flawed, like most human memory is.
Anyhow, I have clarified in this thread today that I don't like uncharitable language on the forum, and only tolerate it in certain contexts, and in small doses. And a long-standing member who gets angry once a year might get a "pass" for using a phrase that a new member might not. That is not equal treatment, but it is fair.
Anyhow, that's all in the past. Now you know.
That's the way it is going to be here on CathInfo going forward. Take it or leave it.