Godfrey, usually it’s the man who wants the sex, and often, the woman does not consent. It’s called rape. You must be around really disgusting, immoral or amoral women. If it IS the woman who decides to have sex or not, what does that say about the man? Seems to me both sexes are messed up!
Woman have a choice, it’s not rape if they regret it afterwards. Women should not be putting themselves in risky positions that increase the chances of them being coerced into having sex. But if they do, it’s not rape. It’s unfortunate, but they need to guard their virginity like it’s gold. Same with men. There are aggressive women out there as well.
The only rapes I’ve seen are by third-worlders or migrants.