He said:"This is not proof enough for stigmata. Suffering yes, but God does not reward it to us. Peace and Grace. Suffering may be a means of obtaining Grace, but not a reward."
I agree with the other posts that the stigmata is not a good topic to discuss; too unusual a circuмstance, and hard for a layman to really explain/understand.
However, I will correct his logic above. He's saying that the stigmata is not a "reward". Ok, fine. But grace isn't a "reward" either, for none of us can "earn" anything. Further, God often gives suffering to saints because they will accept it, and so they will obtain MORE grace, and often, they will obtain graces for others who are too selfish and sinful to accept their own sufferings/grace. Therefore, the stigmata is not a "reward" but an opportunity...an opportunity for certain saints to suffer at a high level, to thereby sanctify themselves to a high degree and to win conversion of others. Certainly, Padre Pio and St Francis suffered for others and helped a great many people to save their souls. The stigmata is a sign from God that a person is charitable enough to suffer for God's will and purpose.