Telesphorus,
You may find it hard to believe that I don't find white women, as a group, more attractive than other women as a group, but it is true nonetheless. In fact, if anything I tend to find Asian women especially beautiful.
I think if you carefully examine your feelings and views on this that you will recognize that your preference is not based on your memories and experiences and not on your nature.
I am not offended by the suggestion that some white men will find white women more attractive than others. I am offended (to the extent that I am offended, which is not very much) by the suggestion that they SHOULD.
Why does it offend you that people believe that?
It is one thing for people to say that certain characteristics are less attractive to them. That is a matter of personal taste, and in matters of taste there is no dispute.
Except that's not really true. Often it is a matter of dispute. In such matters sometimes logic and reason are of less help than clearness of perceptions.
I am reacting to what seems to be your suggestion that some racial characteristics are inherently more attractive than others,
Can you give a reason why they wouldn't be more attractive? Why should they necessarily be equal?
and that white people are inherently more attractive simply because they are white.
If they are more attractive in general (and there are many many people who think so, of all races) then it is not simply "because they are white" - there are reasons for it.
If I have misunderstood you I apologize.
In the natural order the way people pair off is important. I do think it's natural for whites to be attracted first and foremost to whites. Also, I do not think there's anything wrong with saying that different races have different attributes, or that those attributes can be compared. There is something wrong with saying that one must never admit the existence of inequalities regardless of the evidence, because there's no
a priori reason to believe that there are no such inequalities.