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Author Topic: Is Ballet Immoral?  (Read 9760 times)

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Offline Gray2023

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Re: Is Ballet Immoral?
« Reply #65 on: February 03, 2026, 12:34:41 PM »
You’ve gone from “they are the same” to…”some similarities”.  We’re making progress!
I am trying.   I just know that there are beautiful forms of dance that become less beautiful because of the costuming.  

And certain types of dance have gone too far like hip hop and jazz.  Even Irish dance the skirts are way too short.  I like the folk dancing that Mr G shared.  But is it immoral because a man touches a women's waist or holds her hand?  I don't know. 

Do I have to really worry about these things? No.  I have sons and they don't care about dancing.
Do I worry that I offended God when I didn't know any better? Yes.

But again no one on the internet really cares about intent, they just take what is written, interpret from their perspective and then call you something like a slithering lady.  But I digress.  Sorry.  :cowboy:

Re: Is Ballet Immoral?
« Reply #66 on: February 03, 2026, 12:42:09 PM »
I am trying.  I just know that there are beautiful forms of dance that become less beautiful because of the costuming. 

And certain types of dance have gone too far like hip hop and jazz.  Even Irish dance the skirts are way too short.  I like the folk dancing that Mr G shared.  But is it immoral because a man touches a women's waist or holds her hand?  I don't know. 

Do I have to really worry about these things? No.  I have sons and they don't care about dancing.
Do I worry that I offended God when I didn't know any better? Yes.

But again no one on the internet really cares about intent, they just take what is written, interpret from their perspective and then call you something like a slithering lady.  But I digress.  Sorry.  :cowboy:
You sound very lovely and you’re trying to see both sides of the debate, of course there is bad intent in some dance (erotica and some burlesque and the ‘dance’ in nightclubs aimed at generating hook ups!) I think have a chat with your priest if you know one you trust who is sensible and don’t take notice of the puritanical opinions of many of the people on this group!! 


Offline Gray2023

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Re: Is Ballet Immoral?
« Reply #67 on: February 03, 2026, 12:52:14 PM »
You sound very lovely and you’re trying to see both sides of the debate, of course there is bad intent in some dance (erotica and some burlesque and the ‘dance’ in nightclubs aimed at generating hook ups!) I think have a chat with your priest if you know one you trust who is sensible and don’t take notice of the puritanical opinions of many of the people on this group!!
The problem with melancholy and scrupulously is that they sneak back in even if you are assured you are not offending God.  I say this because sometimes it is really hard for other temperaments to understand the pitfalls of temperaments they don't live.  You said you were a sanguine, sometimes I wish I could be like that or a phlegmatic.  They seem to not worry so much about what others think.  :cowboy:

Re: Is Ballet Immoral?
« Reply #68 on: February 03, 2026, 01:04:57 PM »
My sister and I were both enrolled in Mrs. Robinnette’s School of Dance and Etiquette for Young Ladies. We were both quite young, from ages 4-7. It was for girls only, for ages 4-11 only. Mrs. Robinnette was a widow who had a dance studio built onto the back of her house. We did some ballet, folk dance, put on mini-musicals, learned how to walk, sit, serve food, sit,  converse gracefully. There were four levels of achievement after which the girls received a formal tea party and a diploma. I completed two levels after which time we moved. I recall nothing embarrassing about it except if someone’s brother made fun of his sister at drop off or pick up time. The world was still normal enough that boys usually looked upon anything “girly” with disdain.  Our standard clothing was a full leotard with either modern dance, ballet, or tap shoes, and a flared, pleated skirt with matching vest top. Each level wore a different color. Level One was pastel pink leotards and white skirt-vest. Level Two was pastel blue leotards and white, Level Three, white leotards with pastel green, Level Four was white leotards and bright yellow. I mostly enjoyed the classes and twirling around in the skirts to music. Mrs. Robinnette had a St. Bernard dog named Charlie for a pet. He stayed in the living room or outdoors. Despite his large size, he was very friendly. I remember sometimes we would be allowed to pet Charlie and feed him milkbone treats. 

Re: Is Ballet Immoral?
« Reply #69 on: February 03, 2026, 01:08:09 PM »
My sister and I were both enrolled in Mrs. Robinnette’s School of Dance and Etiquette for Young Ladies. We were both quite young, from ages 4-7. It was for girls only, for ages 4-11 only. Mrs. Robinnette was a widow who had a dance studio built onto the back of her house. We did some ballet, folk dance, put on mini-musicals, learned how to walk, sit, serve food, sit,  converse gracefully. There were four levels of achievement after which the girls received a formal tea party and a diploma. I completed two levels after which time we moved. I recall nothing embarrassing about it except if someone’s brother made fun of his sister at drop off or pick up time. The world was still normal enough that boys usually looked upon anything “girly” with disdain.  Our standard clothing was a full leotard with either modern dance, ballet, or tap shoes, and a flared, pleated skirt with matching vest top. Each level wore a different color. Level One was pastel pink leotards and white skirt-vest. Level Two was pastel blue leotards and white, Level Three, white leotards with pastel green, Level Four was white leotards and bright yellow. I mostly enjoyed the classes and twirling around in the skirts to music. Mrs. Robinnette had a St. Bernard dog named Charlie for a pet. He stayed in the living room or outdoors. Despite his large size, he was very friendly. I remember sometimes we would be allowed to pet Charlie and feed him milkbone treats.
That school sounds wonderfully eccentric and eclectic ❤️🙏You should come to England!! There are ladies like you here…just eloquent and not fitting into the box…you’d love it (am sure you’ve been!).