I forwarded this video of Fr Altier to family and friends. I would like to share with you one response from a family member.
and my response …
In a sense, the intemperateness of the response is hardly surprising. It's far easier to snap at you than to come to grips with the possibility that he or she has been played for a fool by the secular authorities for nine months.
Fully thirty or forty years ago, a priest told me that there were many more instances of deathbed repentance in fiction than in life. He said that even with the prospect of eternal punishment staring them in the face, most people could not bring themselves to say, "I have been wrong all these years." Your relative's situation is, thank heaven, far less fraught, but the underlying psychology is the same.