And further more! They would have been acting in self defense if they did! This woman poured bleach on their genitals! The other post was referring to men using unprovoked physical acts as a way of discipline against their wives. You should learn context better! Two different situations. If a wife physically attacked, or abused her husband he should try to restrain her if at all possible, but must also act in defense of himself (and children if there are any). Self defense acts are not the same as what we were talking about