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Regarding the morality of adoption, I must testify that adoption is a GOOD thing.
Now, you might not end up with the same 'hormonal bond' that you would have with a child born naturally, but there is a LOT more to family than hormones.
For every child that is adopted there is AT LEAST one life that would have been either much worse off or else non-existent had there been no adoption.
Regarding the abortion industry, when you start with one error, you're going to get more error in the future. Error begets more error. Therefore, when you begin with IVF, don't be surprised when you end up with, "It's better to destroy the unwanted embryos," and, "You see! Abortion is a good idea."
There is a foul-mouthed radio broadcaster in L.A. whose first business is acting as a lawyer for IVF clients. Typical of his misotheism are things like, in answer to the morality of abandoning 30 unwanted embryos in order to achieve successful implantation of one of them, he is wont to say things such as, Oh, I have no problem with wasting 30 embryos! The more the merrier! Why? Because it improves the success rate, that's why. And when the success rate is better, I get paid better!
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