1-they don't have to marry for money. So their love is more sincere.
1.) They still likely marry for financial security. Many career women are motivated by money/materialism in the first place. I don't see any trend of career women marrying the under-employed.
A woman preferring a traditional gender role would be less motivated by money because accuмulation of wealth and material things are less important. Traditional womanhood is based on the principles of keeping the home, helping the husband and raising the children. How many of these women own designer handbags or go to the country club? If a woman placed great value on such things, she would certainly not be motivated to become a homemaker.
2-they don't have to marry in order to physical realtionships. So their marriage is not for s**.
2.) Modern women likely get to a point where they realize they want the best of both the feminist world and the traditional life. They might decide they want to experience a wedding, (notice how the emphasis is usually on planning a wedding and not planning a marriage) the clock may be ticking on their fertility and a monogamous relationship will allow them to try for a child and only have to do half the work of childcare, split with modern husband.
A traditionally minded women marries to raise a family and build her house into a home. These women would understand that martial intimacy is for procreation, so to suggest they marry just for the intimacy is silly, because the intimacy is connected to bearing children.
3-They don't want kids so they don't look at a man as a ''means'' to have babies.
3.) Many modern women still want at least one child. God's design for woman's biology is still fighting strong against the culture of self-sterilizing. They want the experience (just a softened version of it) so they marry to have the child. They place him/her in daycare so their career is not disrupted and then still only have half the duties of childcare. It is also becoming popular for women to marry a man who will stay at home and be nanny for a period of time. "Stay at home Dads." How convenient, now she can use him for free child care and further emasculate him by holding this status against him to say he doesn't contribute enough because men generally will not be able to excel at domestic tasks as well, and men care for children differently.
If they don't want children, why marry? And what happens if all women stop wanting children? Is that good for society?
Truly traditional women would not looking for a means to have babies. Yes, they want to grow families which isn't possible without the man, but the man's role is more than that. The woman should want a defender and leader for her family. She recognizes this is necessary for having children. She wants to
give him beautiful babies because he will consider them a blessing not a burden.
4-they don't have to marry in order to enjoy social security and independence.
So far they are led to believe that modern women want their husbands for the husband's own sake. They marry because they want so not because of it's social, emotional, financial, physical benefits. So there is more ''purity of intention'' in marriages by modern ladies.
4.) If the modern woman's intentions were so pure, and she doesn't
have to marry, why is she marrying? If a modern women gets married, there is some motivation that isn't just love. Modernists believe marriage is just a piece of paper, so if they marry, there is a reason.
If the term "wife"is being used in place of girlfriend (and the couple isn't married, like many modern couples are not) then she is keeping this status so she does not have to commit or because she won't give up her independent life away from the man. Why would that be appealing?
A traditional women is happily willing to give up her independence and defer her security, which requires a great level of trust. If a wife accepts marriage it is because she wants to take on the calling as "help meet" to her husband. This woman is ready to dedicate her life to serving the lord and serving her family. That level of submission shows more purity of love and commitment than any other arrangement I could think of.