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56 year old conned out of 273K by fake romeo
« on: March 20, 2019, 10:37:10 AM »
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  • A 56-year-old woman who was hoping to find true love has instead found herself hundreds of thousands of dollars poorer thanks to an online scammer.
    The woman, identified as a California hairdresser named “Yin,” was bilked out of $273,000 by a man she met on Match.com, and who identified himself as a major with the U.S. Marines, KABC reported. Now, she’s sharing her story with the outlet in order to warn other online daters of scam artists who may be seeking to pull the same stunt.

    Yin said she joined Match.com because she wasn’t meeting many new people between her job at the salon and her caring for her mother. She soon met a man named “David Perez,” who identified himself as a Marine, and told her he was to be deployed to Afghanistan. Yin fell in love with Perez, and began exchanging messages and texts over the next month.
    He had even sent her pictures of a man dressed in military uniform — a reporter for KABC, Dan Noyes, is currently seeking out the Marine whose photos the scammer used in order to convince her of his lies.
    "I fell in love with him quickly, you know," Yin told KABC’s Dan Noyes. "Like really deeply fall in love with him, trust in everything he said."


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    After five weeks, Perez convinced Yin he needed money before heading off on a secret mission, conning her out of a total of $273,000.
    He then promised to meet her at an Oakland restaurant for her birthday, but never showed. And that’s when she realized she’d been had.
    Yin contacted the FBI and filed a complaint, but has yet to hear back. Match.com has refunded her membership fees and deleted Perez’s profile, and the company provided a statement to KABC claiming that less than 0.01 percent of users reported scams in 2018. The site itself also offers information on avoiding such scams, a spokesperson added.

    Yin, meanwhile, has reportedly lost her life savings. She’s also declined to reveal her true identity, as she hasn’t told her family of the scam.
    A study of romance-related scams co-authored by a Better Business Bureau investigator estimates that scammers have cheated Americans and Canadians of around $1 billion since 2015, Yahoo Lifestyle reports.
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    Offline Matthew

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    Re: 56 year old conned out of 273K by fake romeo
    « Reply #1 on: March 20, 2019, 10:39:21 AM »
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  • Pretty sad that at 56 years old she hasn't found "true love", whatever that is.

    I wonder if the "true" adjective was thrown in there because she was married before, but gave up on that one (or two).

    Ironic that she worked her whole life and saved up $273K, but because she still needed marriage, a man, etc. it's what cost her all that progress. It's like she was desperate, and made her more foolish than the average 18 year old woman when it came to men and getting married. 18 year olds are young, ignorant, and inexperienced, but they aren't desperate. Again, quite ironic.

    Moral of the story: focus on marriage first, and career a distant second (if that).
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    Offline Maria Regina

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    End robocalls - avoid scam calls
    « Reply #2 on: March 20, 2019, 10:58:16 AM »
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  • There are so many scams today. I am praying for that lady. Such a sad story, which could have been prevented.

    Beware of Internet scams and phone offerings, especially those which offer free vacations, etc., like time shares.

    I just changed my phone carrier from Frontier to Spectrum. Spectrum offered me NOMOROBO, which blocks robo calls. It is wonderful and free. Frontier never offered me this service. Instead Frontier wanted to charge me $5.00 for a private line, and then another $5.00 for call blocking, and another $5.00 for another blocking service. Ker-chunk, ker-chunk, ker-chunk.

    It is now peace and quiet. We do occasionally get a one ringer, but NOMOROBO tells its clients not to answer the first ring as that may be a robocall.

    https://nomorobo.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/205761775-What-phone-carriers-are-supported-
    Lord have mercy.

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    Re: 56 year old conned out of 273K by fake romeo
    « Reply #3 on: March 25, 2019, 04:15:16 PM »
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  • Thank you for the tip about Nomorobo. I had been getting as many as ten robocalls a day for years, but since activating the service a week ago, I haven't had a single one.

    If only there were an e-mail equivalent of Nomorobo that would eliminate or reduce the hundred or so spam and fraud mailings I get every day!

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    Re: 56 year old conned out of 273K by fake romeo
    « Reply #4 on: April 03, 2019, 11:50:00 AM »
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  • Maybe someone could create a program to eliminate spam from our Internet email accounts.

    Companies should not be allowed to SELL our phone numbers and email addresses.
    This is private information.
    Lord have mercy.


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    Re: 56 year old conned out of 273K by fake romeo
    « Reply #5 on: April 03, 2019, 12:13:17 PM »
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  • Yeah, this story is so sad on so many levels.  Poor lady.  She was probably very lonely, and then when she thought she found someone who might love her, this clouded her judgment.

    This is the type of sin that's crying out to heaven for vengeance.