If you make a reply, and if they answer back with, "you can't judge me", you may say, Christ said, "You will know them by their fruits". You are to judge what you see. Just as you judge to buy items. Some people are just testing you as they did Christ. A lady I worked with, told me that her son has his girlfriend living with her in her home and what did I think of that. (she was a new order catholic) I replied, you mean what do I think of fornication? She did not reply. Don't find yourself silent, for the world would just love for us to be gagged. sɛҳuąƖly transmitted diseases do not make the news in way or form, but they are epidemic with teens and people are dying from cancers at younger ages! My husband works at a hospital and they know! they see it! Even the very old! I do believe Our Lady was known for saying that people are going to hell like snowflakes that fall from the sky. Many prayers for these ignorant people.