Most people are comfortable in their little way of living, and don't want to change. My uncle said once, "I would rather obey the pope, and be SAFE, than listen to you." See, they think they're "safe" if they just follow the herd.
I think the saving grace of some people is going to be the fact that they're devoted to the Rosary.
For years, my cousins were not allowed to talk to our family (thanks to my Novus Ordo Indifferentist [except when it came to us... we were going to hell] grandmother). Now they're coming of age, and a few of them have come to talk to me, specifically from a family of 12 children that I've kept in some contact with for a lot of years (even though they basically dismissed me as nuts too.)
One has been coming to Mass with me for a month or so now. One more talked to my father several years ago, and then recently talked to me about going to Mass himself. Then another one has just recently started asking me questions. It's wonderful.
One of them pointed out to me that their parents were listening to some program (by a protestant minister) that mentioned something regarding Saint Malachy's prophecies, and said that this pope now was going to be working closely with the antichrist, but wouldn't be the antichrist himself.
She asked me why they weren't getting it, and I said, "There's something that just has to click with them. We don't know what that is, but we just have to keep praying that whatever it is, they will find it. That one thing that's just going to go...
:idea: 'Oh yeah... DUH WHY DID I NOT SEE THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE?'
Whatever it is, we just have to pray for them to find out what that something is..."
It's very comfortable living in a lie. People don't want to lose friends, they don't want to change their lifestyle at all, and they don't want to feel ostracized. This is the main reason why people don't have the strength to see the truth most of the time, in my opinion.