And I guess that is always the answer, do nothing but pray. How has that worked for 60+ years?
It's worked as God has intended it to work. The fact that Traditionalism exists at all (even though fractured) is a miracle. Every possible thing is against Traditionalism - new-rome, politics, culture, Trad infighting, lack of authority, and the devil himself- yet it persists. That's the work of God.
I sat on the side line watching family after family fall apart. We should just accept all the fallout from this Spiritual War without a fight?
Everyone has free will. I've seen my family fall apart too, but they chose their path and God will let them choose it. No amount of prayer will interfere with free will. God will use your prayers to convert others and for the Church.
I am sorry to address this to you, but maybe men should start saying we have had enough. Yes clergy might understand things better, but Charity must come first in all things, I am not sure we have seen much of that.
Certain things can only be fixed by God, and the Church is one of them. So is society and culture. And politics. If these 4 things aren't catholic, then life is going to be hard. No amount of fortitude, hard work, or "having enough" can repair such damage.
God is allowing some of this chaos for a long-term goal. Part of humility is to accept our limits. God appreciates your zeal but it must be balanced with prudence.