Gee didn't it cross your mind to get that "proper spiritual counsel" before you made the allegations? The cat's already out of the bag -- more than one moment earlier.
You had better take it easy, Roman Catholic.
First, you have zero information as to the spiritual counsel I take, when I take it, and who counsels me, or when they counsel me.
You said, "And on principle I would not give names (not that I wanted you to)"
Well there you are. You cannot have it both ways, can you?