An old friend of mine -- a traditional Catholic, mind you -- got married exactly 2 years ago. I am morally certain that his wife is/was Novus Ordo. He now has a 22 month old son and a 6 month old daughter. Both children were baptized at least 3 months after their births.
Prayers requested for him and his family, and for myself that I don't look down on my old buddy too much, who seems to be totally infected with Novus Ordo influence. It is sad, and highlights just how dangerous the touchy-feely, sentimental Novus Ordo religion can be.
What is interesting is that this friend of mine was practically *notorious* for his piety! He was the most pious man I knew. How sad.
As Bishop Williamson would say, "Kyrie Eleison!"
Matthew
Matthew,
I will keep your friend in my prayers. We are new to tradition, as you know, and I worry some about the future of our children and their marriages, should they be so called to this vocation, particularly our oldest.
Traditional Catholics are a small minority and, from my experience, many traditional catholics that are "approved" by the Church are missing many Truths, including fortitude. (I do not mean to be critical) Therefore, it can be quite hard for a young person to find a suitable spouse. What then is one to do?
I suspect my son will eventually find a young girl (as he feels strongly at this point about marrying) who is non-Catholic but very conservative. He will then persuade her to convert to traditional Catholicism. In many ways, this may be preferable to NO Catholics. Unless one has a really strong desire for Truth, he/she will develop a very insufficient knowledge of the faith. I've also found that many conservative and traditional minded NO Catholics are very strongly against "abandoning" the NO church. They see it as disobedience to their priests, bishops, and the Pope.
IMO, it takes a Catholic with a tiny bit of a rebel attitude to muster up the courage to face their NO friends and leave.
Just my thoughts.