Yes, just asking a few questions usually reveals that Novus Ordites are CINO.
Be careful with your use of "CINO"--Classiccom may have it copyrighted! :smoke-pot:
Sorry--I couldn't resist
In all seriousness, I can give a rough idea of what the N.O. does to a person. I mainly attend Motu now, but an N.O. parish is my only practical option for Catholicism. That being said, I am VERY harsh on the N.O. and clearly see many of its ills (though I have learned even more here).
The N.O. relaxes away from the discipline necessary to live in the dignity properly becoming of a CATHOLIC (i.e., making a complete JOKE of fasting and abstinence laws); leads to neglect of prayer and devotion (First Friday, Stations of the Cross, Rosary, grace for meals, good strong traditional prayers all but forgotten and not learned by those born post-Conciliar--I am just now learning many of these myself, including Hail Holy Queen, St. Michael, etc.)
Now that I am more fully embracing tradition and imposing traditional practices and observances upon myself, I can truly see a personal impact in my life. Living as a full CATHOLIC amid the N.O. is my cross to bear, and the burden has been undeservedly lessened somewhat by my now being in a conservative N.O. with the TLM and where tradition is observed and encouraged to a great extent. I say undeserved because I previously cussed, cursed, blasphemed, and fell from grace over the N.O. and the void of tradition, and because it was "too hard" for me to live as the CATHOLIC I desired to be with the lack of support (no others doing so, no authority saying I had to, etc).
It has indeed been my experience that, as stated, the N.O. breeds indifferentism. I have otherwise found what has been said thus far to be true. In myself, there was a craving for this greater fullness. I had an opportunity to learn some tradition and know that's where the Church had been (and I believe will return). I can only suspect that the young folks (40 and all the way down) who have left and are leaving for protestantism have a similar craving without the grounding in the fullness of the Church that I had. Thus, the N.O. is failing many souls. But I have not seen any logical explanation, nor any miraulous revelation, that the Apostolic chain is anywhere but there.
Flood back into the N.O., raise hell, make mammoth waves, and DEMAND the fullness of what you bought into as converts to Catholicism and your birthright as cradle Catholics! If doctrine is wrong, make them squirm like a worm until they are squished or have wiggled back into place! Yes, God COULD give us a Pope from elsewhere, but that's not what He has promised in Scripture and Tradition!