Yep, Paterson is like going to NYC for me (about 2 hours away). If I knew how to drive and could afford a car, I would go anywhere, more or less, to hear Mass. But not being able to drive really complicates things.
When I was a teenager I used to travel on 3 buses for a couple of hours to hear Mass down by the airport, at the Ramada Inn there (this was in the 1970s when Masses were held in motel banquet rooms.)
Part of the problem too for me now is I'm much older and have health issues that make public transit hard too due to my bad knees.
I just CAN'T understand WHY in a major city with a lot of Catholics still in it, that it is like this. Its not like I live in Timbuktu!
Back in the 1970s, there was an independent sede TLM held in the storefront of a man named Ed Heffernan....he renamed his store "The Ven. Anna Catherina Emmerich Shrine, and he would collect and store statues, altar rails, etc that churches were throwing out due to the changes of V2. He had an elderly priest live there who said Mass. But once the priest passed away, it all fell apart. But if that was still functioning, the place where it was is only 20 mins from my home, in Feasterville, PA.