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Theology of the Body--the Gift that Keeps on Giving
« on: July 23, 2012, 02:35:25 PM »
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  • PLEASE PROCEED WITH CAUTION.  THIS IS SENSITIVE AND MORALLY HARMFUL MATERIAL

    I hesitate to post this because of the nature of the discussion.  It involves the "theology" of the Body mess of JPII that just will not die.

    I was sent this link in an e-mail and as I read my mouth hung agape.

    I know we all know what is happening in NO and that it is rotten to the core.

    But I honestly didn't think the TOB had really taken root.  Apparently I was wrong.

    The NO Catholic rag, the National Catholic Register has an article about a "brilliant" website.

    Bringing Sexy Back

    The article is shocking, revolting, and vulgar.  

    It applauds this website, 1flesh.org, because it is "reaching young people in the culture" and "talking frankly and honestly."  

    One of the images on the website is of a girl with this really provocative expression on her face.  I could see how some men might be harmed by just this image alone.  

    I mention it here only because I think it's important to see how fast the NO is collapsing.  

     


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    « Reply #1 on: July 23, 2012, 06:23:03 PM »
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  • I bet this article was popular with the Fishies.  :cool:


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    « Reply #2 on: July 24, 2012, 08:02:04 PM »
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  • I wonder who is paying into this?!  Someone is teaching it, and the teaching material costs.  And let me see, is it mandatory before confirmation, marriage.  Hm?!  You know, that is business as usual! I the teaching, is there any mention of the salvation of the soul or confession to get back on track,hm!  Once a toe is in the door and these N.O. people give the impresssion that they are onto something that Christ missed, watch out!  And the Bishops say that they are in lines with church teaching!  Must be the AMERICAN church but not CHRISTS!

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    « Reply #3 on: July 24, 2012, 08:08:57 PM »
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  • My NO mommy group recommended  Christoper West to me.

    They also thought I should start tracking my cycles now so when I do marry I'll be ready to use NFP.  :facepalm:
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    « Reply #4 on: July 24, 2012, 10:54:31 PM »
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  • How God made us, is not evil.  It is our attitude that = our behavior.  It is the modern world that takes what is of God and then rips it apart.  Attitudes are taught in these NFP groups.  Some are worse than others.  Dr. Billings was very sad when he went up to a podium and told the NFP teachers, "This is not yours, it is Gods!"  He was even mad.  So, if you learn the knowledge, that is fine,but it is how it is used or abused, with attitude of the heart that we will be judged.  This is where serious reason comes in, a phrase NFP never uses.


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    « Reply #5 on: July 24, 2012, 11:25:36 PM »
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  • The knowledge that comes with the really scientific methods of NFP is just too much to enter a marriage with. You aren't open to life if you're testing God for a scientific anomaly.

    The way some of these ladies describe the procedures is really odd. I would think all the work would be a mood killer, but they claim it brings the couple closer.
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    « Reply #6 on: July 24, 2012, 11:56:09 PM »
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  • Give me your feedback on this thought...

    It's been said of the EF Mass that's it's "good on the way up" as in it should be encouraged among NO parishioners and discouraged among Trads already attending Masses of the uncompromised sort.

    Would you say the same would be true for NFP? Should it be encouraged among those who would otherwise only choose artificial birth control?

    I'm not talking about classes and websites and other "public" information sources. I'm talking one-on-one advice whether it be from a priest directly to a couple or from one person to another.
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    « Reply #7 on: July 25, 2012, 12:02:27 AM »
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  • It's one thing to teach the method.  It's another to advocate it as good and holy.


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    « Reply #8 on: July 25, 2012, 01:11:19 AM »
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  • I remember from Catechism class that NFP removes the intrinsic evil created by contraception, the potential for remaining evil can result from how/when it's used.
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    « Reply #9 on: July 25, 2012, 01:27:46 AM »
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  • The reason it doesn't sit right with me is because it is often promoted as the responsible thing to do.

    It doesn't seem natural to constantly be evaluating whether or not you should be avoiding. It also appears to be a lot of hassle, but I suppose 5 in a row and set of twins are a lot of work too.  :wink:

    I like the concept of ecological nursing. That makes more sense to me.  
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    « Reply #10 on: July 25, 2012, 09:12:24 AM »
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  • this is what I am speaking of.  Just take the knowledge of mucus signs, which God has given.   Forget any opinion and stay away from the groups that have wrong thoughts.  Sympto thermal groups, in my opinion go to far and are prideful that their ways are of the best and work the best,  That is the attitude I am speaking oIt is a very bad attitude.  The knowledge is good to have for fertility signs.  Mucus that goes on could be a cyst on the ovary.  Signs of mucus and no pregnancy.  Time from ovulation to menstrual maybe signs of a tube that is not working.  Signs that God give to us are good.  Some women can only ovulate once a year and that is not abnormal, but normal for them.  When breastfeeding the signs are there to show you are fertile again.  So, take the knowledge of God and throw out the secular terminology and the pridefulness of these groups.


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    « Reply #11 on: July 25, 2012, 03:28:34 PM »
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  • Quote from: songbird
    this is what I am speaking of.  Just take the knowledge of mucus signs, which God has given.   Forget any opinion and stay away from the groups that have wrong thoughts.  Sympto thermal groups, in my opinion go to far and are prideful that their ways are of the best and work the best,  That is the attitude I am speaking oIt is a very bad attitude.  The knowledge is good to have for fertility signs.  Mucus that goes on could be a cyst on the ovary.  Signs of mucus and no pregnancy.  Time from ovulation to menstrual maybe signs of a tube that is not working.  Signs that God give to us are good.  Some women can only ovulate once a year and that is not abnormal, but normal for them.  When breastfeeding the signs are there to show you are fertile again.  So, take the knowledge of God and throw out the secular terminology and the pridefulness of these groups.


    Good post. :)

    I've never had any issues, so I just do not see, as a single woman, why I would I want all this knowledge.   I thankfully didn't drink much hormone-filled cow's milk when I was a kid, and I've never taken any hormonal contraceptives. I've never had thyroid/iodine problems, I drink red raspberry-leaf tea, remain fit (but don't over exercise) and try to eat well.  Nothing is ever guaranteed, but I'm protecting my health, and I'm not going to anticipate fertility problems just because, nor will I ever get married if I have a "reason" to not get pregnant.  

    The sugarcoating of Catholicism that happens in the NO in becoming more and more obvious to me everyday. I'm sure it is viewed as the lesser of two evils when most Catholics are fine with contraception, but it is a slippery slope.   It is almost like they are tricking themselves into self-extermination by promoting and applauding a concept that is potentially more reliable than contraception at preventing pregnancy. Are non-traditional Catholic families any bigger than any other families?  Doubtful.  
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    « Reply #12 on: July 25, 2012, 05:00:52 PM »
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    Give me your feedback on this thought...

    It's been said of the EF Mass that's it's "good on the way up" as in it should be encouraged among NO parishioners and discouraged among Trads already attending Masses of the uncompromised sort.

    Would you say the same would be true for NFP? Should it be encouraged among those who would otherwise only choose artificial birth control?

    I'm not talking about classes and websites and other "public" information sources. I'm talking one-on-one advice whether it be from a priest directly to a couple or from one person to another.


    I would say no on this.  As espoused by HH Pius XII, NFP is only licit in those situations where there is sufficiently grave reason that it be employed.  Now, "sufficiently grave reason" is a fairly loose term, and I've never seen a concrete list as to what qualifies.  Myself, I have always counted only one reason of truly sufficient gravity to retard the fecundity of the marital act and that is if, though conception is possible, it is reasonably certain that the women will not be able to nurture the child to term (for instance because of medical conditions such as endometriosis) and as a result one or more children will depart this world eternally deprived of Beatific Vision.

    Since the example you game comes not from a sufficiently grave reason or licit reason, but simply to see one's will done contrary to God's intended purpose of the conjugal act, while seeking to avoid the just penalty for contraception, the intention of the act is still willfully and wholly bent toward rebellion against God and natural law.  Therefore, I'd argue that it's merely a riskier form of contraception.

    The desire to proselytize is just, but perverting an example God's mercy as a means of abetting those that have not humbled themselves sufficiently to truly desire to conform God's law, simply to make it more palatable is a terrible injustice to the individual in question and to Christian society as a whole.

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    « Reply #13 on: July 25, 2012, 11:15:48 PM »
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  • Sufficiently "grave" reasons:

    - Don't want bosom to sag
    - Don't want wife to get fat
    - Don't want to spend money on diapers and formula
    - Too many kids already
    - Don't like going without sex when wife is pregnant
    - Don't feel attracted to wife when she is pregnant
    - Embarrassed by big families
    - Just lost baby weight and don't want to not look good
    - Motherhood is not as rewarding as I thought it would be
    - I miss having a social life
    - Taking care of children doesn't leave enough me time
    - We can't afford another child
    - I'm burned out
    - We don't get any couple time together because children are always around
    - I'm too old to have a child
    - I'm too young to have a child
    - I get post partum depression
    - I want to devote more time to church activities
    - We are entering the last days and it would be cruel to bring a child into the world
    - I've had too many c sections and another one would be dangerous
    - I'm scared to become a parent
    - I'm not ready to become a parent
    - I don't want to bring a child into the world just in case we get divorced

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    « Reply #14 on: July 26, 2012, 12:52:26 AM »
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  • How does no sex when the wife is pregnant make the sarcastic list?
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25