...... Deacons hear confessions...
This isn't even permitted in NO. It's a serious transgression if this has occurred anywhere. It strikes me as being so outlandish of a comment that it makes me wonder if you're even Catholic--even NO/conciliarist. If you're not and you're here to learn, I think that's good. But I think you've held yourself out to be Catholic.
I'm not stating my doubts to start a big argument. But I have spent most of my life in NO/conciliarism, and I never saw this nor heard any mention of this even one time. So I don't think it would be appropriate for fellow forum members to dismiss this as simply another abuse of conciliarism--it makes me doubt that you're who you say you are and, frankly, your purpose of being here.