Sigh. It's not I who condemned your opinion, it's the Church herself that did so long ago. Bowler, I'd appreciate a yes or no answer to these questions.
1. Do you know that the opinion that Catholics ought to believe only dogmas is condemned? Do you accept Tuas Libenter of Pope Pius IX, that Catholics are bound to believe not only the dogmas of the Church but also what are held by theologians to be certain conclusions derived from revealed truths? Do you agree that denying these latter would merit censures and have been proscribed by the Magisterium in the past?
Baptism of desire is just a theological construct that answers a flawed question: "What happens to a person who is justified, but dies before he can be baptized".
This is completely wrong.
2. Baptism of desire is merely an extraordinary means of baptism. It merely asserts that the effects of baptism, which is justification, can be received in extraordinary circuмstances without the matter and the form of the sacrament by the dispensation of God who has so instituted it.
I could take many examples, but I'll stick with Cornelius. You don't seem to understand the point about Cornelius at all. Consider this syllogism,
i. Justification cannot now take place without baptism (Trent)
ii. Cornelius received justification before water baptism (which you accept)
iii. Therefore, from i and ii, it follows that Cornelius received an extraordinary means of baptism.
Do you deny i or ii?
This suffices to disprove your claim that there are no extraordinary means of baptism.
St.Peter was preaching about the Holy Trinity and Incarnation. Cornelius did not desire baptism explicitly, but only implicitly, by implicit desire is meant that he had the right disposition of the will that was resolved to do all that God required and so God animated it with perfect charity.
And this the Prince of the Apostles himself bears witness to saying "They have received the Holy Ghost just as we have". Only after this were they baptized in water.
This is also the testimony of Tradition about Cornelius.
3. Lastly, only the following two points remain.
i. All who die in the state of mortal sin and death are lost in eternity, and equally certainly,
ii. All who die in the state of justification and grace are saved.
Do you actually deny one of these?