We cannot pick and choose how Catholic we want to be and then become lay attack dogs when a fellow Catholic disagrees with our own opinion. No , we have to be Catholic at all times , and to fight the battle not only in Charity but in the Unity of cause so that our actions reflect what each of us asks for in the practise of our faith or we risk being hypocritical in both. Our Lord will furnish us with all the answers we seek - in due time. Therefore - the answers lie there , with him , not in our ability to out reason the next guy , but in our ability to do the will of GOD in all things - both spiritually and temporily so as to obtain the necessary grace to open the eyes of all Catholics and to unite them in that common cause - to serve GOD so as to merit Heaven.
Pax
Hi Malleus, this makes good Catholic sense. I know that many of us beg God's pardon as we have tried to navigate confusing and unexpected situations while trying to form our children in the Catholic tradition. For many of us isolation has been an issue, so we are extremely grateful for Matthew putting up with us.
Hi Elizabeth
Yes - I too think that the fact that these are confusing and trying times with the Church Hierarchy in shambles which has led to the isolation of so many good Catholics - that fact alone will inevitably lead to crosses and contradictions by even the most well meaning of our number.
That's why I refuse to take sides. I may be one of those strange birds who sees value in many of the things Father Cekada , Bishop Dolan and Bishop Sanborn write and also like the message of Father Ramolla and Dr Droleskey and of course we are parishioners of CMRI and yet , am I to choose sides? I think not. The dispute between all of the above is really not my affair. I think Bishop Pivarunas helps where he can help and where his help isn't asked for he uses prudent judgement in deciding how best to proceed. I think that is worth something in this day and age . even if he has gotten criticized because his decisions didn't conform with the judgement of others. A scathing article which airs dirty laundry is never a good idea. And I think most prudent Catholics can recognize that fact without having to attack the person guilty of doing it.
So instead , I think letting cooler heads prevail and disengaging is the best strategy - for nothing good can come of perpetuating a disagreement.