I agree 100%. This is exactly why most NO & protestants won't become Traditional Catholics. They love mother and father more than God. And we all know what Our Lord says about this. People are too afraid of going against the grain and looking like a crazy fool.
I've always been a rebel and now I get to be a rebel for God.
I'm also adopted, and never had any sort of deep familial ties/roots. So when the time came for me to take the jump it was nothing for me to do so. I used to be deeply troubled by not having anyone in my life that I could relate to and now this core wound is one of my greatest strengths. I now have a Father, a Mother, a Brother, and a whole host of siblings... The world has never and could never give me what I have always been searching for.
God has been good to me.
In our area at least, an old Southern city where people are predisposed not to stand out too loudly, not to discuss matters where there is a controversy or where human suffering or discord is involved ---
"don't get your 'sad cooties' on me!", or as the lyrics to the song from the band REM over in Athens say, "shiny happy people" --- and, above all,
to do the thing that everybody else is doing, we have many people who
say they like the TLM, who speak highly of it, but when it comes actually to
showing up... they're not there, they're at the Novus Ordo. They're fickle and they mindlessly conform to the larger society.
For several reasons, including just the natural lack of attachment that occurs over time when people drift apart, I haven't been in contact with my extended family for decades, they're in states far away from me. They are overwhelmingly non-Catholics, and I am quite confident that if we
were in such contact, we would come to blows about matters of religion --- abortion, contraception, and divorce with invalid "remarriage" would be quite enough --- with the caveat that Protestants do not object to people worshiping in the way they see fit and that their conscience dictates. It's only in the Catholic universe that "pray my way" comes to bear.