I don't agree, Michelle. The way to consider this is
(1) What has lazy defeatism achieved in the last 50-60 years? And the answer to that is, indeed, absolutely nothing. In finance, there's something called "backtesting". You backtest an investment strategy by going back and seeing how it would have worked over the last several years. If it did not work, it's a poor strategy. If it worked, it's fine.
(2) What has working within the system achieved in the last 10-25 years? And the answer is (1) overturning Roe v Wade and (2) Summorum Pontificuм which to me were both big wins. So I see it differently. But let's each do what we believe to be right and the fruits of each approach will be evident in time and thus will point to where Truth lies.