Those critical of this question (trying to SHUT DOWN DISCUSSION) and the one who REPORTED THIS THREAD TO ME:
This is a discussion forum. It seems to me like an honest question. We are not going to ban, censor, or shut down legitimate discussion on my forum. You may "know it all" but some Catholics have things that bug them that they just don't know the answer to. They are free to ask those questions on CathInfo. In fact, I'm going to have to open the floodgates here, and say that TO ALL OF YOU WHO DON'T KNOW SOMETHING, you are welcome to ask on CathInfo, and if this thread scares you away, YOU MAY USE THE ANONYMOUS FORUM to avoid this kind of criticism.
If you can't ask questions on CathInfo, then why even have a forum?
If he is IGNORANT of something (which is why you ask a question, hahaha!) then let's EDUCATE. Readers will learn a lot from the answers. I've seen some great answers in this thread, and I thank each one of THEM for their intelligent, charitable, and helpful responses.
As for the "other type" of responses -- I will decide what is allowed on CathInfo, and what is appropriate for discussion. Not various members. I really get annoyed sometimes when members try to bully other members (since no members have any real "power" per se -- there is only one moderator)
My advice to everyone: if someone tries to bully you, IGNORE THEM. There are as many opinions as there are people. But only ONE OPINION MATTERS as far as posting privileges on CathInfo goes. If I have a problem with you or your posts, you'll find out. But if I have no problem with you, but 100 other members do, then you stay.
CathInfo is not a schoolyard, high school, prison, collapsed state, or democracy. Cliques, jocks, bullies, and "popular girls" have no power here.