In other words, we were betrayed by those that called
themselves 'conservatives'. They may say 90% that is
true, but is that remaining 10% that does the damage.
The two Priest in the novus ordo parish in the 1980's
were ordained in 1940, and they knew better.
It seen to be their duty to keep the parishioners
brainwashed in accepting the new ways. Never expect
the return of the old mass. One priest called it a
'pagan ritual'. This was nearing 20 years after the
introduction of the english mass, and there was
still a lots of resistance.
One thing they were militant about was what the pope
says, and does, we must follow. We do not want to be
accused of being more catholic than the pope.
It is this obedience that keeps Catholics in the NO
church, and accepting everything that comes along.
The priests you speak of are partially right and mostly wrong. When they say we must follow the pope, meaning obey the pope and his laws, they are right. The Pope is the head of the Church, and the laws he promulgates are the laws not of him personally as a man, but are given through his office as Pope and are the laws of the Church which are spotless and holy. The Church cannot give evil.
But, while these priests understood their duty to the pope, they failed to recognize the evil apparently coming from the pope. It is impossible for a pope to give the Church evil doctrine or laws.
Hear the words of Pope St. Pius X on how Catholics must love the Pope:
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How must one love the Pope? Not only with words but with actions, as well, and with sincerity . . . When one loves the Pope, one must not discuss on what He advises or demands, as to find out which are the duties of obedience, and to limit there one's obligations. When one loves the Pope, one does not object that He has not spoken clearly enough, as if He was to tell each and everyone His will clearly expressed many times, not only in speech, but in His letters and public docuмents; one may not doubt His orders under the pretext that they do no emanate from Him directly, but from His entourage; one may not limit where He may and must exercise His will; one may not oppose the authority of the Pope against that of others, no matter how well educated, who differ from the Pope's mind. Besides, whatever their knowledge, sanctity is lacking in them, for there could not be sanctity where this is disagreement with the Pope." (Pope St. Pius X, allocution of 18 November, 1912, AAS vol. 4 (1912), 693-695. Selection from p. 695)
see Latin original from AAS at bottom of post:
So, how does a Catholic reconcile this teaching of Pope St. Pius X with Paul VI, John Paul II, and Benedict XVI? It is clearly impossible that these men could have been popes, as they have done things which popes' cannot do. It is impossible to consistently maintain your Catholic Faith and faithfully follow Pope St. Pius X's clear Catholic teaching on how to love the pope in regard to following and obeying these men.
These men teach ecuмenism, praying with false religions, encouraging prayer from false religions, teaching that salvation can be achieved through false religions. Popes do not teach such things or act in ways to encourage false belief.
If you cannot treat the pope in the manner that St. Pius X teaches us that we must, due to the "pope's" teaching, laws, and actions against the Faith, then you must sincerely and seriously ask yourself if this is truly the pope.
"Perciò quando si ama il Papa, non si fanno discussioni intorno a quello che Egli dispone od esige, o fin dove debba giungere l'obbedienza, ed in quali cose si debba obbedire; quando si ama il Papa, non si dice che non ha parlato abbastanza chiaro, quasi che Egli fosse obbligato di ripetere all'orecchio d'ognuno quella volontà chiaramente espressa tante volte non solo a voce, ma con lettere ed altri pubblici docuмenti; non si mettono in dubbio i suoi ordini, adducendo il facile pretesto di chi non vuole ubbidire, che non è il Papa che comanda, ma quelli che lo circondano; non si limita il campo in cui Egli possa e debba esercitare la sua autorità; non si antepone alla autorità del Papa quella di altre persone per quanto dotte che dissentano dal Papa, le quali se sono, dotte non sono sante, perchè chi è santo non può dissentire dal Papa." (Pope St. Pius X, allocution of 18 November, 1912, AAS vol. 4 (1912), 693-695. Selection from p. 695)