I have been a sede for 43 years, since my conversion. I was one before the term existed. And in all those years, the only hate and contempt I have ever encountered was from bogus ordo adherents/conciliarists. They love Protestants, Jєωs, pagans, Muslims...ANYBODY but Catholics who adhere to true Catholicism and hold that the sede has been vacante since 1958.
What did Our Lord say about knowing people by their fruits?