I've seen many people cope and say you can pray for dead non-catholics privately because God can consider your prayers outside of time before they died, however many Popes say we are not to pray for them. Should we not obey the Popes/Church?
Source for quote by Pope Nicolas
https://sourcebooks.web.fordham.edu/basis/866nicholas-bulgar.asp
Thank you for sharing this important information. I never understood the argument of praying for a non-Catholic after they died, since God, being outside of time, could accept our prayers on their behalf, beforehand. Practically speaking, the moral results of religious indifferentism in our own souls will be the same regardless, which is what the Church is warning us about in these teachings you have shared.
The reality is, is that the dead person who is being prayed for has already been judged and given their sentence, so our prayers will not change anything. I think the Church would have mentioned the ability to do this, if it was morally acceptable.
Yes, we should obey the Popes and the Church, and not our feelings as most people do today.
This high esteem for personal sentiment is that "vital immanence" which Pope St. Pius X spoke of in
Pascendi; modernists have created this concept, and it consists in obeying our own feelings and thoughts over that of God's teachings. It is the deification of man.
Modernists assent to dogmas, because of their feeling for them, not because they were revealed by God and are deserving of our submission. This is why they simultaneously assent to heresies, because of their feeling for certain errors also. Bishop Williamson did a really great series of conferences on modernism, it truly brings many things to light. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IMv2jide2g