There is always the danger when combatting heresy and error, that one may swing to far and in one's zeal, create a new heresy or error.
Baptism of Desire is the teaching of the Church. Outside the Church There is No Salvation is the teaching of the Church. There is no contradiction between the two.
The Church does not allow heresy and error to be taught in its name.
Right, and there is no Novus Ordo.

The Novus Ordo did not come from the Church, and could never have been allowed to exist within the Church. The Catholic Church is always holy and always teaches the truth.
The Church is holy, it is not the pillar of heresy, error and evil. The Church is not the whore of Babylon!
No, it did not come from within the Church but it has convinced the world that it is the Church is what I was getting at.
The thing is that the dogma of exclusive salvation means exactly that. One who God (not us) determines is sincere and desires the sacrament will receive the sacrament, period. He could sustain the birds on nothing but air, but that's not how He created them - if they want to live, they must eat, and He feeds them. He could let us in without the Sacrament but that's not what he said He would do.
It takes God no more effort to allow the sincere person to live an additional hour or day or year or 1000 years for that matter in order to get the sacrament to that person, than it does to simply accept the person's good intentions.
The difference is that God said, and His Church has infallibly declared that the Sacrament is a necessity, or he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. God never said - nor are there any magisterial pronouncements that say some can get in without it.
BOD, regardless of whichever particular theory one subscribes to, all have the same thing in common, namely, in the name of some type of desire, they all ignore completely the requirement established by God and taught through His Church since the time of the Apostles.
I was reading old news articles on Google about the Boston Heresy Case and came across this article from 1949 about how the
new catechism was revised so as to agree with those who accused Fr. Feeney of causing the scandal of disunity with "his interpretation" of the dogma.
Anyone who goes back to read some of these articles cannot help but see that the crooks were already in charge back in those days and that the crooks still use the same methods to stay in control - 1) they silence the good guy, 2) they ignore all pleas for justice to be served in the matter, 3) after the initial slander campaign has been started, the crooks remain wholly silent, 4) the good guy is expelled, 5) the crooks now are free to promote error without much resistance because after seeing what happened to the good guy, no one wants to be subject to the BS.
Again, the question is asked - what becomes of the dead person if you are wrong vs what if we are wrong?