Indeed. In the new theology, becoming "authentically human" is the goal, not salvation. Because we are all saved through our human nature, redeemed by Jesus Christ anyway, though some are not "fully aware' of it.
Your frustration is understandable. These people are completely delusional if they believe BXVI is in any way a Feeneyite.
I simply cannot imagine believing that all non-water baptized Catholics (including catechumens, martyrs for the faith, and the invincibly ignorant) are burning in the pit of Hell fire while AT THE SAME TIME believing attendance at a fully approved Novus Ordo rock Mass with people who believe in universal salvation is a-ok.
So, another words, outside the NO, there is no salvation? I've had these types tell me Society Masses were frowned upon and Society Masses and confessions are invalid.
They are walking contradictions. I think holding two contrary beliefs at the same time is a precursor to insanity.
Their position is about as logically ridiculous as being a Sedevacantist who believes in universal salvation,.