You are 100% correct. I've been at the chapel since the 1990s. Father Starbuck was healthy when he arrived, and as you say was ill for less than 2 years, then he fully resumed his service to (what used to be) our chapel. During the time Father Starbuck was ill, he offered his suffering up to Our Lord for the good of the chapel. Those who are Catholic know that such suffering is also service to God.
This is spiritual warfare.
Please pray the 54-day Rosary to Our Lady of the Rosary that the rot will be removed from the chapel and for the protection and guidance of Father Starbuck. Please write him a note to let him know you are praying for him.
I am randomly posting my reply here because I am really fed-up with reading about all the Priest dissing, and all the supposed insiders trying to explain things on here, and hurl mud at each other, on once again, a PUBLICLY READABLE forum board.
Your chapel has BIG problems. HUGE. Ladies, this is mostly for you, but not exclusively.
My husband and I were on our way to do a Holy Hour last night and for confessions (there must have been over 60 people in line, so Father must have ended up spending 2 or more hours in the confessional). Anyway, I mentioned to my husband as were driving in, (we have a long drive), "So, I am on this Catholic forum." "Yeah, what about it?" "Well, what would you say or think about people posting about the problems in their parish and talking about the Priests?"
"They shouldn't be posting anything about their parish. If there are problems, then they need to be discussing things in private and in a boardroom somewhere, and not on some forum." "That's what I thought, and I posted that." "Why, who is posting? Oh let me guess. Is it women posting?" "Yes, mostly."
"You know, in all my years of doing X and running X, I have had the most problems with women. They were always the ones trying to tell the Priests what to do, criticizing them, stirring up trouble in the parish, stirring up trouble for those going to Mass. They could be so nasty." "Hmmm..." "That's one reason why I shudder when the phone rings and I worry it's A or B. They never stopped criticizing the Priests." "So what should I do to try to stop things?"
"They are posting this stuff on a public forum where anybody can read it? Well, they could find themselves in hot water or legal trouble." "They have named names and are accusing people of different things." "Like I said, they could find themselves in hot water or legal trouble. Are any men posting things?" "Not as much." "Figures. Just stay away and be glad you don't have to go there or deal with them."