Crayolcold,
You're about as interested in a boring academic answer to your disinterested intellectual curiosity, as two street brawlers are interested in exploring the physics of potential and kinetic energy as they try to bash each other's brains in.
You're continuing the fight, slugging for "your side", hoping for a win against "the other side". Like 2 street brawlers fighting with pipes and chains. You're not a scientist, calmly, dispassionately experimenting with potential and kinetic energy.
So let's not pretend.
I can tell your mindframe by how you refer to me as "the other side" even though I haven't argued for or against NFP.
I've only posted that it's not a layman's place to "settle" or make any broad pronouncements, anathemas, or define any new dogmas on this moral theology issue, especially for the Catholic Faithful at large. I posted that Fr. Cekada made some very good points about this. Before Vatican II, you didn't have armchair lay theologians posting their useless opinions before millions of eyeballs with little-to-no theological training and NO Ecclesiastical oversight. The Crisis in the Church does NOT justify *everything*. Fr. Cekada was 100% right about that point.
Arriving at any true position on NFP would involve respecting all the principles and known truths/facts involved, and properly applying them in each case. Fr. Cekada did list some of these principles, and frankly I'd like to know how you would dispute any of those points he listed. They sounded like plain facts to me. Easily proved or disproved.
Anyhow, I made the mistake of posting in this thread, so now that I've been swept into the whirlpool against my will, my only option is to lock the thread.
I repeat AGAIN: talk to a good Traditional Catholic priest, one with a Traditional formation. Forget about getting spiritual direction, or confessional advice, from a bunch of laymen on CathInfo.