I know what book you may be talking about because the parts of it that I have read say what you just wrote, TK - The Sacraments and Their Celebration by Nicholas Halligan, O.P. It's a hard book to get, and it's way too expensive for me too. Maybe someday.....
It would not have been this particular book, as I've not a copy nor have I seen it, though I may just see if my local library can't obtain it through an inter-library loan. (The Notre Dame University Library might just have a copy and I've borrowed books through this method from them before.)
On the other hand, the author's name seem familiar, so it may have been an excerpt from this book that I read in another book. (Yes. I'm one of those strange people who read the footnotes.)
On another point, if I am reading Ladislaus correctly, I believe his points are very well stated on the subject.