Led me give some insight here. First of all, attending a Prot wedding or funeral does not make one a heretic. Just don't participate in any of the prayers or anything and you'll be fine. That's not a problem. What is a problem though is that JPII invited not only the Prots, but the Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, Hinduists, etc. and as I said in another thread, during Assissi II he refused to offer Mass on Sunday so as "not to offend anyone". Assissi I and II were disastors waiting to happen, and the same can be said for Assissi III.