Epiphany, you need to study/post excerpts from canon law for this. If you can't/don't want to, then you should stop giving uneducated advice. "Oh, this is what I heard" or "Some priest said this" is not a good way to spread Truth. In fact, you could have misheard or misunderstood what they said. What you are saying is objectively wrong, for pre-V2 catholicism.