If someone chooses the name "Unmerciful", there is nothing cruel in using Scripture to tell everyone that such a name is not a good thing to be named after, and should not be chosen. Stubborn even tried to defend his name by saying the Saints were stubborn!
I understand what you are trying to say, and we could debate a bit that 'stubborn' is a polysemous word (vs. unmerciful). Also, the quality of 'stubborn' could just as easily be applied to most on Cathinfo. You are as unwavering as he in these debates, for example.
With respect, I don't think it's proper to target a member for shame in this way. Expressing your opinion about his name is your prerogative, but the auto signature tactic is abusive of Scripture, and took me by surprise. Whether you two like each other or not, there are lines we just shouldn't cross.
'nuff said on my part about it. I apologize for the derailment. On with the CMRI debate!