Love God with all your mind, heart and soul.  He will not accept half hearted measures.  You must avoid all occasions of sin.  You must do penance.  You must renounce all sin, heresy, apostasy and idolatry.  You must make just judgments.  You must live all, not just some, of God's Holy Commandments, and the 7 Precepts of the Catholic Church.  You must dress like holy men and holy women of old.  All immodesty is condemned.  You must do all in your power to come to the knowledge of the truth.  You must die daily, that you might get the graces you need.  You must live the law on your hearts.  This will help you to go forward.  Seek, knock, ask, pray till you are there.  It is a battle, but, what greater leader can one have, than the very God of Heaven.  He is calling you.  Are you not sick of the hypocricy of the world?  Come to Him.  He will help you to all truth.  You must study the holy Catholic Faith each day, with daily Bible readings and study.  You must give God good daily prayers, not just a mere pittance. You must get rid of all occasions of sin against the Faith and Morals.  There is a good book online on how to become a good Catholic.  You must get your children out of all bad schools, if you know what I mean here.  You must home school them with Catholicity infused in all subjects.  God will lead you the rest of the way, if you do this, and are of good will.  He cannot deceive, nor be deceived. Bad Catholics go to hell, just like non Catholics.  It takes only one heresy for one to fall out of the Catholic Church, outside of which, there is no salvation.  Work out your salvation in fear and trembling.  Stand up for The King of Kings, and He will make His abode in you.  However, if you deny Him, and you know what I mean by this, He will deny you to His Father in Heaven.  I will be praying for you, that if you are sincere, you may find the Way.  To Jesus, through Mary.