It does sound like a good plan to get one interested in the TLM.
However, some won't even set foot inside a Traditional Chapel if it is not "approved". Therefore inviting them to a TLM in your Chapel is a non-starter.
I'm looking more for points to make when explaining to someone why you attend an "unapproved" Chapel and why you attend the TLM exclusively.
I guarantee it's not worth the fight. It always led me down the path of getting them upset as they realized I thought that their attending the NO in any format was a sin (scandal)...drove them nuts...because their stand is that going to an SSPX chapel is sinful...
But those same people...when left to their own devices...in my case...started looking seriously into the local FSSP chapel...and as the progression goes...they'd soon find that gong FSSP they still have to put up with dioc bs and pay the tab for sex crimes...all while being relegated to second class members of the dioc. so they are even willing to look at SSPX now.
But the fact is some people will never get it, and I'm pretty sure it's not worth a fight to defend yourself...and it won't help them find their way.
You can always bow out by saying that your reasons would probably upset them...and then just invite them to come and see for themselves...you'd be surprised you might get a taker
no matter what you say they will be pissed off or think you're a kook
That is why I say ask questions....it leave it all in their park...and then they have to find the answers....not while they're talking to you...but they can use the internet.
I employed that one with my 13 yo sister...who dad had told that I thought I was more Cath than the pope....you've heard that crap before....and she thought she'd pull it out on me during conversation....
So I just asked her if she knew what the Koran was...she did...and I asked her if she thought a Pope should kiss such an evil book...she said no...then I asked if she was aware JP2 did...she was not...and I said...oh...well I've never done it either....food for thought....leave them hanging
Asked if the Cath faith was equal to others...she said no...Asked her if praying together with false religions and heretics as equals was a good thing...she said no...then I told her about JP doing it....the look on her face was priceless
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If you really must engage them...just tell the truth as succinctly as possible...
with SSPX or SSPV you are certain of your sacraments...no invalidity...and no scandal...just the real thing the old way.
proper catechesis
All sacraments the old way
No dioc BS like interference with the TLM by placing ridiculous limits on it and other sacraments
and no paying for sex crimes or modernist agendas....NONE
That should get them to stop badgering you...although they'll still never go to a TLM...LOL