If you check the so-called "Catechism of the Catholic Church" (it's online at the Vatican web site) and read what the "new and improved" Catholic Church's position is on the Mass, you'll find page upon page of syrupy goop but not a word about a sacrifice or any propitiatory intent or the expiation of sins. Even a "reverent" Novus Ordo Missæ in Latin (and a Greek Kyrie) with all the bells and smells is the same Mass that appalled Cardinal Ottaviani and Abp. Lefebvre and Padre Pio, to name a few – if it's even really a Mass. To suggest it's Mommy and Daddy's fault if you find it distressing is beyond absurd.