While I disagree with the SV understanding of the Crisis, I have no difficulty at all respecting the vast majority of them as well-intentioned people doing their best to make sense of a disturbing and confusing situation. Nothing in their views compels me to bitterly argue with them nor leads me to reject their status as my fellow Catholics. I experience very little sense of separation from them. On the contrary, I find myself liking and respecting many of the ones whom I encounter online.
Being quarrelsome and divisive comes from people's attitudes, not from their position on the Crisis. It would be more useful to commit ourselves to prayer and to charitable conduct to each other than to putting our efforts into continual debates.
It is disturbing to us all, but it need not be as confusing to them as they make it Jayne. They go out of their way, as they must, in order to help make it confusing - not only for them but for everyone - and all for absolutely, positively no reason whatsoever. Sedeism truly is iniquitous.
There certainly is no reason to be so concerned about it that they must go out of their way to reject *all* authoritative Church teachings in the matter and twist all the teachings so that they fit their own misguided presupposition that the pope is not the pope, then accuse those who actually have faith in the Perennial teachings of the Church of being heretics.