I am not talking about what the priests are doing.
You should be. They are the main problem.
They can't bind people to follow them. They don't have jurisdiction,
Many act like they have authority and they prey on the confusion of the laity. It's really time people stand up and stop this nonsense and call out these prideful clerics.
but the people can decide for themselves and plan accordingly.
This is just protestantism. People can decide on insubstantial things. On substantial things (i.e. grave moral questions), they have to follow Divine/church law.
A person who has decided they can't go to an SSPX, needs to find a Mass he can attend, even if that means moving.
Yes, they have this obligation. But the "decision" that they can't go to the sspx is already flawed, protestant and an error.
Home aloneism is believing that no one has been given the right to say Mass since the death of Pope Pius XII.
No, it's more than this. Home aloneism is believing that "Trad group a, b or c" is off-limits.
People who believe the church ended with Pius XII are just crazy. They'll be judged for their pride.